Susan M. Howard
February 20, 1945 – August 19, 2025
Susan Myers Howard, of Sun City Center, FL, 80, died on Aug. 19, 2025, at The Cleveland Clinic in Weston, Florida, following open-heart surgery, during which her heart was found to be severely more compromised than anticipated. For the past year she had undergone difficult treatments for endocrine cancer, which contributed to her body’s inability to survive the surgery.
She is survived by her sister, Linda Myers Boucher, of Orrington, Maine; her stepdaughter, Amy Howard, of Windsor, CT; brothers-in-law Frederick Boucher of Orrington, Maine, and Robert Rider of Naples, FL; nieces, Nancy Beckert, of Newbury, NH, Deborah Games of Kirksville, MO, and Virginia Andrews of Bountiful, UT; and nephews, James Rider, of Medway, MA, and Peter Games, of Boise, ID. Susie is preceded in death by her husband, Douglas L. Howard, of Sun City Center, FL, and sister, Gail Myers Rider, of Naples, FL.
Susan was born in Hartford, CT, on Feb. 20, 1945, to Glenn Howard Myers and Flora Hine Myers of West Hartford, and Farmington, CT. She was the youngest of three sisters, a fun role she played all her life. Her young years were spent in West Hartford and then in Farmington. Starting in her seventh grade, she attended Oxford School in Hartford, graduating in 1963, and went on to William Smith College in Geneva, NY, graduating in 1967. After college, she returned to Hartford and worked for The Travelers Insurance Company and then for The Aetna, from which she later retired.
Growing up in West Hartford, she attended the West Hartford Congregational Church where she was a member of its high school choir. There she learned classical church music, a knowledge and love that stayed with her all her life. During the last few years of her life, she attended The United Methodist Church of Sun City Center and became a member of their Bell Choir – an activity which she truly loved.
Susie married James McAslan in 1969. They lived in Avon, CT, with their wonderful Black Labrador, Dinah. After their divorce she remarried – to Doug Howard in 1981. They lived in Avon until their retirement, when they moved to Florida, eventually moving into Freedom Plaza Retirement Community in Sun City Center.
Susie had a few passions, one of which was her four-legged friends. She loved dogs and cared for many during her lifetime, volunteering at various animal rescue centers and having her own dogs until no longer possible. As a baby she adored her “nigh didan” (her family Dalmatian) before she could even walk or talk.
She loved sports of all kinds. As a young child she memorized all the major baseball stars and their batting averages to the delight of her dad who was also an adamant fan. Later, she was an avid NE Patriots fan. And then there was golf. Again, following one of her father’s (and husband’s) passions, she became a proficient player, competing in club tournaments and organizing a few as well. When it came to joining family gatherings including any games, Susie was always a happy participant. She loved the game of bridge and regularly played with her friends at Freedom Plaza.
Another love was Cape Cod. She spent many summers there as a child, and it ended up being a place she (and later, Doug) kept returning to all her life, the ocean, the beaches, the wind and the surf, AND the lobster.
Although Susie never had children of her own, she connected with them, perhaps more than with adults, as if she never wanted to grow up and decided not to. People easily connected to her friendly and unassuming way. She was a free and loving spirit. She will be deeply missed by all who know and love her.
A Memorial Service for friends and family is planned for later in the fall at The United Methodist Church of Sun City Center. Details of the service will be found on its website,
She is survived by her sister, Linda Myers Boucher, of Orrington, Maine; her stepdaughter, Amy Howard, of Windsor, CT; brothers-in-law Frederick Boucher of Orrington, Maine, and Robert Rider of Naples, FL; nieces, Nancy Beckert, of Newbury, NH, Deborah Games of Kirksville, MO, and Virginia Andrews of Bountiful, UT; and nephews, James Rider, of Medway, MA, and Peter Games, of Boise, ID. Susie is preceded in death by her husband, Douglas L. Howard, of Sun City Center, FL, and sister, Gail Myers Rider, of Naples, FL.
Susan was born in Hartford, CT, on Feb. 20, 1945, to Glenn Howard Myers and Flora Hine Myers of West Hartford, and Farmington, CT. She was the youngest of three sisters, a fun role she played all her life. Her young years were spent in West Hartford and then in Farmington. Starting in her seventh grade, she attended Oxford School in Hartford, graduating in 1963, and went on to William Smith College in Geneva, NY, graduating in 1967. After college, she returned to Hartford and worked for The Travelers Insurance Company and then for The Aetna, from which she later retired.
Growing up in West Hartford, she attended the West Hartford Congregational Church where she was a member of its high school choir. There she learned classical church music, a knowledge and love that stayed with her all her life. During the last few years of her life, she attended The United Methodist Church of Sun City Center and became a member of their Bell Choir – an activity which she truly loved.
Susie married James McAslan in 1969. They lived in Avon, CT, with their wonderful Black Labrador, Dinah. After their divorce she remarried – to Doug Howard in 1981. They lived in Avon until their retirement, when they moved to Florida, eventually moving into Freedom Plaza Retirement Community in Sun City Center.
Susie had a few passions, one of which was her four-legged friends. She loved dogs and cared for many during her lifetime, volunteering at various animal rescue centers and having her own dogs until no longer possible. As a baby she adored her “nigh didan” (her family Dalmatian) before she could even walk or talk.
She loved sports of all kinds. As a young child she memorized all the major baseball stars and their batting averages to the delight of her dad who was also an adamant fan. Later, she was an avid NE Patriots fan. And then there was golf. Again, following one of her father’s (and husband’s) passions, she became a proficient player, competing in club tournaments and organizing a few as well. When it came to joining family gatherings including any games, Susie was always a happy participant. She loved the game of bridge and regularly played with her friends at Freedom Plaza.
Another love was Cape Cod. She spent many summers there as a child, and it ended up being a place she (and later, Doug) kept returning to all her life, the ocean, the beaches, the wind and the surf, AND the lobster.
Although Susie never had children of her own, she connected with them, perhaps more than with adults, as if she never wanted to grow up and decided not to. People easily connected to her friendly and unassuming way. She was a free and loving spirit. She will be deeply missed by all who know and love her.
A Memorial Service for friends and family is planned for later in the fall at The United Methodist Church of Sun City Center. Details of the service will be found on its website,